Wishes of the late 20’s

Hell yeah! And just like that we are Twenty-nine fam 🎉

Most of you know how it feels to be in your last 20’s. Here it’s already a real struggle. Last night i realized that 30 is next, and it seemed to come at me real quick. 30 seemed the scary number😞. On the last month of 28 I wrote probably one of my favorite blog posts of all time: https://wanontheroad.travel.blog/2022/12/01/28-things-i-learned-in-2022/ Twenty-eight was probably the most transformative year of my twenties. It was full of eye-opening awakenings and internal journeys.

The struggle is, I don’t really feel like I am an adult. Adult things are far from me, there are lot of things i wished I did when I was in my early twenties but they never happened.. May be I was too busy. But busy for what??? For making babies, to get married or to have a serious relationship, to buy a car, a house. To travel when I want and wherever I want. Honestly, I see 30 as the beginning, I have so much I want to accomplish personally and professionally. I refuse to be sad about getting older.

Anyways, I had fun on my birthday and I am looking forward to make twenty-nine the best year of my last twenties. The Greatest Gifts I am going Give myself Before 30 are : 1)Anxiety was something that I’ve struggled with for the bulk of my life. But I realize now that to worry is to waste energy, accepting life for the experience we are currently having, and not the projected experience of what we think will happen, beautiful things become reality. 2) spreading love and not engaging in the chaos. 3) speaking positive words to myself, Always strive for solutions rooted in love, harmony, and the highest good. 4) Never accept anything for face value. It’s part of re-discovering who we are.

2-9 Let’s do it.

The good, the bad, and the ugly – you are the creator of it all in your life. We call in different people, experiences, and situations to help us grow. We can choose to acknowledge that we are the owners of our realities, or play victim and fall a part with resentment. This was the greatest gift I gave myself this past year. Today, when I’m feeling frustrated, bitter, or resentful – I have no one to look at but myself. I don’t need to have a conversation with someone about why they hurt my feelings and get an apology. Instead, I ask myself why I called this person/situation into my life and what’s the lesson I’m trying to learn? Every time I’ve made that shift the situation has resolved itself. My uncomfortable feels dissipate. I realize I am responsible for my emotions and my reactions.

01-12-2023 🎉🎂